Share Your Experiences
These are not chat rooms; what we are trying to build here is a permanent resource of advice and experiences that all current and potential swingers can use for years to come.
Please contribute thoughtfully.
Thanks — Ed and Dana
Thousands of swingers await the benefit of your experience. Don't let them down. Take a few minutes now to write out your comments, opinions and reviews and send them in for all to share. Be sure to read the Policy statement before sending in your comments.
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Music
Next to the people, music might well be the most important key to the enjoyment of swinging. What music do you like playing while you're playing? What tracks get people up and dancing? [DJs, are you out there?] Which groups provide just the right mood for each stage of a party?
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Resorts & Cruises
Tell us about your experiences at swinging vacation spots or, at least, vacation spots that appeal to sexually playful people (including clothing-optional resorts and 'barefoot' cruises). How was the service? The staff? The facility? The food? The entertainment? The ambiance? The guests? Was the trip worth the money? Would you do it again; if not, why not? [Please give the dates (month & year) of your experience.]
Conventions and other Periodic Events
Because they usually involve a significant investment in time, travel, and accommodations, most people don't attend these very frequently. That's why your advice is exceptionally important here. The brochures and magazine articles always claim that everyone had a fabulous time; we need unbiased input. Was the experience worth the effort for you? In so, why? If not, why not?
Clubs/Bars/Socials
Bars, party houses, and regularly scheduled socials are the backbone of swinging. As folks travel the country (on vacation, business, or whatever) they often want to check out the local clubs. What can you tell them about the clubs you frequent that will help them choose the most rewarding destination? How good a value? What are the expectations? How large and how friendly the crowd? How about the food? The entertainment? The ambiance?
Hosting/Coping
Share your hints for meeting compatible people, ideas for more playful parties, stories of successes and failures, views on better sex and safer sex, any and all contributions that might enhance the enjoyment of swinging.
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Books & Articles
Nonfiction or fiction, new or old — What books have helped or hindered you in the pursuit of swinging happiness? Which books and authors would you recommend to those contemplating this lifestyle or those trying to cope with its pitfalls? Do you agree with what others have written? Have you been frustrated in finding a book or other document that meets your needs? Same for videotapes/DVDs.
Web Sites
Sites offering information or products. Sites for contacting other swingers via ads or chat rooms. Entertaining sites. Which ones have you found particularly useful or fun? Which ones have disappointed? [Note: We do not cover pay-for-porno sites.]
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Miscellaneous
Have something to say that doesn't seem to fit into any of the above categories? Say it here.
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